I just want to know this one thing. This is the only one glimpse of hope to me now based on some reading I did recently. Does anyone have the experience that they push themselves through all the pain until they felt all the pain (if that's even possible or feasible), and then were they able to return back to normal functioning simply by having processed it, and then I don't know, gain the ability to have a go at trying relationships again or whatever else they failed with previously that caused all the pain?