I apologize for upsetting you. I post on the forums in an attempt to reciprocate for the responses I receive when I myself post. I wrote my honest impression after reading what you posted, but I'm new to the forums and perhaps it's more important to just give a supportive answer. You shared that you and he both made mistakes, hence my saying you both made mistakes, although my wording could have been better. I didn't actually write that the next guy deserves better, which would have been a much more judgmental comment. I wrote that I hope the next guy deserves better, i.e. that you find a nicer person for your next relationship. Anyway, it's clear I'm not being helpful in this thread, so I can only apologize and wish you the best of luck.