99Fairies—I don’t know what will be decided, but if you end up going, well, It’s just for a while. Time to let others help you, and things get better from here.

Your kids will be OK. You might be thinking of a moment in your mind when they were upset. But they aren’t constantly. Just have your husband take video of them, and you will see that while there are times that they’re upset, there are also stretches of time when they’re OK.