I don't really understand why therapists think it's so important to get angry. I had one who pushed it to such an extent that my internal rage grew and grew and grew and couldn't be contained, and I was just left as this angry alone person. From everything you've shared, I don't think your therapist is that incompetent, but I just don't see the value in getting angry like that. I think what you are doing, by providing a way out, is great and good.