I didn’t mean any offense. The literature on BPD would have scared me about myself so much I probably wouldn’t have thought I could have relationships and children.

But, I have been a great mom. And I tried to be a great wife.

My husband needed to give me what I needed instead of lying to me and failing me over and over. I made my needs so clear, and I was not unreasonable. I was so easy going about the little things, even about some big things.

I don’t think I have black and white thinking either, and I told that to every psy.