Even if you give them reading material on CEN, they know their past & know why they acted the way they did. Unless they are open minded to really learning, it eill be a waste of time & only get your hopes up that they will get it.

I figured out a lot about my parents long after they died & yes, it did make my whole life including my bad marriage make sense. I figured out my parents after figuring out what I had been living with for 33 years in my marriage.

It wiuld have accomplished nothing to have let my parents know why after so many years of being successful that depression hit so badly. Even if they had asked I'm sure they wouldn't have been open to the truth that has finally come to light. Sometimes it is just better to distance from them on that topic & just focus on your own healing successfully.