This is great- the 2 things I really relate to is needing to talk about BIG issues instead of small talk.....ooohh how I HATE small talk, I'm always delving into the bigger issues, manipulating conversations until it's about something deep...the other thing I like in the article is after being in a group, needing alone time to recharge- when I'm working I go to the basement to get ice and this releases me from people just for a little bit, to bond with ME a little......this is a great article....