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Default Mar 13, 2018 at 11:32 AM
 
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Originally Posted by starrysky View Post
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I like how you said "they come in different disguises." They sure do. In the adult world...I have noticed that bullies (at least the ones I've experienced) seem to want to come off as good people who are "Victims" of the people they are bullying.
^This! So much, this!

Almost every bully I have encountered plays the victim to authority while gossiping about people behind their backs or getting ppl to gang up on the real victim. When the real victim tries to stand up for themselves, the bully paints them as the bully and often people believe it. It's seriously manipulative and pathological behavior. I am always wary when someone tells me they are being bullied until I hear the whole story.

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