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Old Mar 13, 2018, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian View Post
Please, tell me. I'm curious
For me, relationships with "emotionally mature" people seem scorning, or that my judgement of an "emotionally mature" person is wrong
Now I don't want to make this thread about me. I want to hear how it's like

EDIT - Now as for my judgement of "emotional maturity" which I would like some criticism for, is that it seems like another excuse to judge other people for their behaviors, even from the "emotionally mature"'s side
Tish's comment is a good one and is SO true of emotionally mature people. That, and they don't fight with you on ridiculous matters. They own up to any poor behaviors and know how to apologize and admit when they are wrong. They also don't take their frustrations out on you or others. Emotionally mature people know how to process their emotions and handle them appropriately rather than in hurtful/harmful ways.

I am not sure what you mean by them being judgemental of others? When have you encountered this type of behavior? I have not. Emotionally mature people, as far as I have witnessed and experienced, simply don't put up with emotionally immature people's behaviors. They walk away instead and don't even bother feeding into the persons' nonsense.

A relationship with an emotionally mature person is like a breath of fresh air!!! It's like living on a whole different planet! It is absolutely necessary for a healthy relationship to exist, imho. I don't know where you are getting the scorn from, but that does not sound like an emotionally mature person at all.
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avlady, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
lina33