Another thought... after reading Sabby's wise opinion... isn't your hubby putting this on YOU? How about him taking the initiative and ACTING/BEHAVING like he did when you were pregnant? You could do the same thing without adding more stress to the relationship and putting a new child in that position.

Hon, your hubby is a bit older than you are. Why is he thinking so "teenage" like? Maybe you really do need to get some counseling? That kind of thinking is quite immature, IMMHO. I'm sorry. I don't mean to insult him or you, but...