This just touches upon how difficult it is for men. If they take no action, they get no attention at all from woman. If they want to take action, they have to do so within these large number of constraints. If you are awkward, you magically have to stop being awkward, before you take action. If it is not the proper setting, you are not allowed to take action. Etc etc.

And I don't really blame woman for it because the facts are that there are many horrible men who ruin it for everyone. And somehow woman gravitate to those men, putting once more more demands on all men.

This is the stupid thing about romance in general. It is fundamentally unfair.