GOOD for you!
You see?
There is NOTHING to be afraid of when you let yourself be COMFORTABEL in a relaitonship and knowing you have ha place! and rights

I can totally relate to how even frightening it way seem to talk to some1 about somehting you dislike. but if you just explain they way you feel and DO NOT blame, just explain how you feel, most chances are you are RESPECTED because you show yourself as a person who DESERVS RESPECT.

and you KNOW you do. just as much as he does.