I wouldn’t say I am emotionally mature.
Someone once insulted me and while I appeared unmoved, it bothered me.

I have a problem with the term “emotional maturity” though. It’s as abstract as “good and evil”. being composed with opinions rather than solid facts. It makes it hard for me because I just don’t know how to fit in

I remember some people with a good emotional maturity. They were kind to be with. However people who are less mature were harder to be around and I’d feel bad when around them at times. Some were not very social, some were hinting or passive aggressive when something was wrong to them instead of saying directly, which I did not like.

For example, someone at the GYM told me “You know people don’t interrupt others while exercising, right?”, when I asked him a question while exercising.

It didn’t prevent me from being a person who asks questions while people exercise, but I did conclude “That person surely doesn’t like it when others interrupt him while exercising so I won’t interrupt him again”

Or this one person who’d tell me to check the notebooks when I asked multiple questions, or “it’s in the computer”. Hated those kind of answers, selfish ******people (excuse my vent).
But I was not smart myself, I could’ve been more considering when it comes to giving help