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I am sorry for your loss. Clearly your Mom meant a lot to you.
Everyone copes differently and there is no right or wrong so long as the mechanism of coping does not harm yourself or others.
My way of coping is to age regress using teddy bears, diapers, blankies, bedtime stories, blankie forts and cartoons. I feel ashamed sometimes but it has saved my life and helped me through real tough times.
Be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing so long as it helps you. If you feel it isn't healthy for you and is stopping you from grieving the loss, be sure to spend time journalling about it.
Thanks,
Hd7970ghz
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