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Originally Posted by piano97
Get a payee. See how it goes for six months. It probably will help, and if you end up not liking it you can switch back. Either way, having some months away from it will give you better perspective. Hang in there.
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I know that’s what I should do. I’m going to talk to my new shrink next week about this very topic. I have no experience with a payee nor do I know just how much control I need give up — or not.
I think that if a payee would allow me, e.g., $500 per month just to spend, I could let them pay my actual expenses and save that remaining.