......In my opinion, I think there is a time to "back off". I've been pretty much where you are and with me, I found dealing with childhood issues, going through a divorce and having a son who was "lost" through the divorce very difficult. I had no sense of feeling "grounded" and life was a real mess.

The T's said pretty much what your T's are saying. That we have to recover from past issues to deal with present issues. But with me, they were wrong. What I needed was to get my footing so I could deal with current issues and then when feeling stronger,if needed, to go back to past issues. Maybe what I needed back then was a "life coach" and not therapy?

Seems you have a lot on your plate right now and taking care of YOU is important. Self care is soooo important, especially when going through difficult times. Just my humble opinion.....