I've experienced a rupture with my T, and it feels astonishingly like a real life break up is in the offing, and it feels like it takes on a life of its own. I couldn't think about anything else- stress, distress, brokenhearted feeling. T's don't just talk about rupture though; they talk about rupture and repair. In the reparation is the best in therapy and the bond can strengthen. I hope Kashi focuses on repair, repair, repair.