My wife and I have been married for 8+ years. 3 kids and a I thought a very happy marriage. Out of the blue I get "Your asn amazing husband and father but suck in bed" speech from her. She has been completely faking sexual interest for our whole marriage. Didn't tell me in the beginning she was into "kinky" stuff. I'm not into it and don't enjoy it but apparently she needs it bad and has been hiding it from me for years.... I'm lost and my pride is more than smashed. We have talked, and she can walk around all day and act like nothing is wrong. But I can't even touch her anymore...she thinks it's headed to us going separate ways and I don't want that. I think she doesn't either but feels trapped now. How can I get a spark again?? All other aspects of our lives are in order and going good.