Thank you all for the wonderful ideas, while this is a serious problem, it's nice to know that she's not alone & there are ways to get this under control.

I hadn't seen anything about allergy sensitivity, especially to delicate tissue, mentioned in some of the research that I did. All of us have skin sensitivity & we all use sensitive skin laundry detergent, gentle soap (anti-bactiral soap is the worst soap you can use & can cause EXTREME irritation), & sensitive skin toilet paper.

I've just found out that sensitive skin wipes are better because they keep you cleaner. I just talked to her about about using the sensitive skin wipes, instead of toilet paper & use a sensitive skin soap for just that area.

I was just at Walmart today & was looking at twin size air mattresses for her. Since we live in a one bedroom apartment, I'm going to buy a small tent, big enough for the mattress, for some privacy.