I'm confused too. You have 2 therapists? Are they working in the same office to help you? Why 2? Are they working together to help you? I agree that even working on past issues right now can be too much, much more working with 2 therapists on issues PLUS real life stuff? Talk to the Ts and suggest THEY slow down.

You do need support in doing what you are doing. Make sure (from your lawyer, law, whatever) that you can move out and still garner half of the house and support as needed. Unless it's an abuse issue, usually the one who leaves is hurt by doing so. BUT if you need to move out, do so!

Ok, you are in the midst of a crisis and not really able to think clearly. Unless you can get a handle on your life, what plans to make and how to execute them, you do need a break, imo. If you can't take a healthy break on your own, staying safe, then hospital might be necessary. If you truly do need to go to hospital to stablize, then yeah, you might not be able to take care of your children during all this.

From your perspective, are you saying that if you can move out with the children, then you won't feel overwhelmed, and can continue to work with the lawyer in making a settlement with your spouse? If so, then do so.

Remember, all those marital and lawyer issues are not permanent; taking your life is. TC