When I get a house, my mother is planning on checking on me, I don't like it at all. She said make sure everything is done right or she will complain.

It turns out she will attempt to get me humiliated. This zeroes out my hope and faith that I have had for so many years.

She said, "what if you go without food for two days, and what if you're freezing cold? I have to help you!" She doesn't.

If I am honest, I am determined to do things on my own.

She said, "I don't raise a son so he is freezing cold." She acts like my life belongs to her, and not me. The US is a free country, she acts like it isn't. She treats me like an eternal little kid. She acts like I'm her property.

In my eyes, I wanna be a leader. It turns out that will never happen. I've been wanting to be a leader for over a decade.

Any advice?