there needs to be not just a icon but a GREAT POST one!!

well expressed Gracey and shows you and DH have done your work, alone and together, to be at that level of understanding.

yOm--please listen to the voices of experience shared here as these folks know of what they write. a child is innocence.....not the key to a relationship between the creators of such beautiful innocence.

please find ways to work on whatever issues the two of you face instead of dreaming a kid will fix things. that's not a dream to pin your hopes on.