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I am sorry you feel alone. I am also sorry about your health situation and your chronic pain.

This interpersonal stress between you and your dad seems to exacerbate your challenges. Have you talked with him, letting him know how some of his behaviors affect you? Is he open to talking with you?

My mom lives with us. In the beginning, I'd eventually had to share with her about some of her behaviors I had found triggering. Her feelings were hurt at first, but in time, we've worked things out. I was also doing things she'd found upsetting. It's a two-way street and we've been able to adjust to one another, which is critical when people live together.

(((((( 21SAB ))))))

I hope you can work things out with your dad.
I also hope today is a better day!


WC