sister, I've been wondering why you are asking these questions about treatment plans right now. I know you are in the middle of a rupture. I wondered if maybe you feel you should have a treatment plan and you don't?

Then I thought the opposite--maybe T shared a treatment plan with you that you had not known he had until now. I'm wondering how I would feel if my T suddenly told me he had a treatment plan for me but had never shared it. And it had a bunch of goals on it that were not my goals. And a timetable that was not my timetable. I think I would feel betrayed.

Please excuse my meanderings. I have found your post very thought-provoking.

I hope you are OK.