So your wife was in the hospital and you thought of one of her health care workers was flirting with you? And you fb-friended her hoping it could lead to an affair? If I am understanding this correctly, maybe you should be focused on your wife’s recovery instead of on the women who are treating her. The health care worker was probably being friendly because she felt bad for you that your wife was in the hospital! My mom is currently in the hospital and when my dad visits, all of the nurses are really nice to him— because it’s hard to have your wife in the hospital.