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Originally Posted by divine1966
Relationship don’t have to be hard and people don’t need to feel how you both feel:insecure and unhappy. But if that’s what you choose, just be prepared that it’s likely won’t last. Relationships like this eventually explode. Unless of course you’ll put with abuse much longer. But abuse always escalates. So be prepared for abuse to get worse. Good luck
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I agree. I just wish we could overcome these insecurities. If both of us feel the same it would just be logical... it should be possible to overcome.
And I am not sure about abuse. Somehow I feel that we are both sensitive. And we have a lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings. He is not abusive!
I just realized. He always feels responsible for my emotions. But just want to be able to talk about my fears and insecurities without it being his job. I want to feel heard and understood. I don't want him to fix everything.