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Old Mar 21, 2018, 03:44 AM
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
That sounds amazing to fit with a therapist like that. I hope I can find that.

Why do you think you miss your other T? Doyou think their withholding evokes more needs for them in us?

My T did talk about compassionate witness- and he was that while we processed trauma . I'll be right with you, right here, take a risk. . .'

I dont know what happened- it isnt like that now.
But when he is being a compassionate witness, he is more in medical procedure t mode, less in human mode. Im not sure you see it that way?

Its like my t is two people in his office - the person ive come to know who has similar politics but there are still unknowns on both sides, and then the professional.
Thanks for this!
*Laurie*, Anonymous45127, SalingerEsme