Has anyone else experienced knowing events took place like once I read in the papers that Peter Gabriel died of a heart attack but when I mentioned it when we were out to dinner they said "I hope not I have tickets to his concert tomorrow." This has happened to me a few times over the years and I feel that some how I jump to alternate realities especially when things are not going good and feel I need to escape to a better time line.
This is not happened to me in years but lately weird things have happened like I was born with a reverse slope hearing loss and can not hear low frequencies like the refrigerating running or a care engine quietly running. I have had my MacBook for 5 years now and never new there was a fan that came on when it got warm because I could never hear it. Now I can hear it. Same with my flat iron. Never heard it working until recently. Same with my flat iron. I never heard it working before. I suppose I could chalk that up to them getting older and being noisier.
Ok I am done being weird now.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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