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Old Mar 21, 2018, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Pflaumenkeks View Post
@patagonia Because if your stressed and confused because you don't fit into the one big box we're all tought to be (cis, hetero) a label can calm you down and make you feel more normal and part of a community. I can see why not everybody likes it, but I can also see why some need it (be it forever or temporary). So everybody should do what feels good. Does that make any sense outside my head? XD

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When I was much younger (teens) I was “labeled” mentally ill. I guess this came as a comfort bec I didn’t fit anywhere.
In hindsight it’s the worst label I ever had & have carried it for over 40 yrs. along with many other labels from my youth when I I was still figuring things out.
Maybe I just hate the word “label.”

Is there a sexual label called, “Exploring?”.....Or TBA?” Can you find a welcoming community just based on other people’s friendship or personalities & not based on their sexual identity? I would hope a community would accept anyone, but maybe this is where my age comes into play & I don’t understand.

Maybe it reminds me of the stigma of going to college as “undeclared” when others knew their majors. Then not realizing that close to 80% of freshmen change their majors.

I just do not like labels bec they lead to stereotypes which are usually wrong about a person.
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