i'm sorry pachyderm.. for two things, one and most importantly, that something like that happened to you at all.. the other is for my wording. i know all too well just what reasons there might be for not asking..

It was more of an internal questioning i was getting at.. and in this one case Mckell raised the issue of going to a "teacher" first, so i continued with it in that vein. i assume she had no historical physical fear of the teacher in question.

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um.. no? never have i, nor will i, ever tell someone such a thing. That would be a pretty big failing in understanding. i don't think many kind things about myself, but i'd like to think that i try to be helpful and supportive most of the time. No one is perfect.