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Old Mar 22, 2018, 11:46 AM
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question.... is your mother named as your guardian or person that is supposed to be making sure your bills are paid, that you are taking care of yourself....

reason I ask is sometimes even though a person is an adult they have had someone appointed to be their decision maker and to manage their care because in the past they have not been able to take care of their own necessities, care and mental or physical health decisions...

if your mother has been appointed to be this person then yes she has a law given right to come into where you live, make sure you are taking care of your self right, make sure your bills are getting paid right, make sure you are taking your meds, make sure you are going to your doctor appointments.

But if your mother is not your appointed guardian then the only way she can come into your home is if you give her a key to your door, or let her in yourself.

if she is not the one appointed to take care of things for you, if you dont want her in your home just dont give her the key to open your door and dont let her in to your home.

if she is your guardian then you will need to go to court and show how you can take care of your self now. you will have to show them things like you know how to cook, clean, understand what your meds are for and how to take them and show them your bank statements that show you manage your own money and pay your own bills.

if you can do everything the court says adults should do, then the court will make it so that your mother doesnt have any say about taking care of you any more.
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