I'm sorry to hear that you've had to deal with it since the age of 16, but I'm also glad to hear that you were blessed with a son. I am already overweight for my 5'1" frame. For my height and age I should be around 110-120lbs. I'm currently at 160. I thankfully don't have any issues with excess facial hair, I only have a bit of "peach fuzz" (which is genetic in my family). But I do have body hair that is darker and thicker than it should be, especially on my back, belly, butt, and legs. One thing I do find funny is that the hair on my head is thin and falling out (it's always been thin, but only recently been falling out more than normal) but my mom's side of the family are full-blood Italian, who are known for thick hair.