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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
This! It is the ambiguity that drives me insane . Having no idea where I stand makes me dwell on him, whereas if I was clear, I wouldnt. I don't do that dwelliing real life, but I also dont discuss taboo private topics nor have one-way relationships either.
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Maybe I'm confused about the problem, but if containment is the issue, and your desire is to be more put together at the end of session, why not ask for that? It seems like what you want is to be allowed to stay over. Instead, would it be helpful to you to ask for him to keep an eye on the time and when it is 5 or 10 minutes from the end of session, for him to let you know. Tell him you want to spend those last minutes figuring out how you can put this away until you see him again.