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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
This! It is the ambiguity that drives me insane . Having no idea where I stand makes me dwell on him, whereas if I was clear, I wouldnt. I don't do that dwelliing real life, but I also dont discuss taboo private topics nor have one-way relationships either.
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Were you safe in your family home? Or is this ambiguity part of the transference that needs to be worked through? I mean, why dont you know? Who holds the definition?
Eta - as anne says, i dont quite understand exactly what the problem is either. You cant get an answer if you dont know the question!