confused, I think I've been a little too easy with dispensing my free "legal advice", and I apologize. What your lawyer says is absolutely true. It could get really ugly if you file those documents with the court. Maybe it is good for you to know there is a way to get your H out of the house if you have exhausted all other options. But your lawyer is right to warn you of the ugliness of acrimonious litigation. He sounds like he is hoping those court orders won't be necessary. Maybe he thinks he'll make some headway with your H's lawyer? Does he share with you what he hopes will happen?

Your lawyer is giving you good legal advice when he tells you the consequences of your moving out of the house (with or without the kids). I am glad he is protecting you in this way and making sure you don't take any sudden action without knowing the negative consequences.

I hope you can see your T soon.