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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Your feelings are correct rdgrad, when you observe behaviors as you have described above, you are seeing how that person is with others in general and it's pretty much how they are with everyone and will be with you as well at some point. The longer you live the more you will see that too. It's good to be observant and see how people talk about and treat others, that way you have a better idea about what kind of friend this person will be to you.
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I agree. With the first example, I am glad I am not friends with the person anymore. Always felr like she secretly didn’t like me even though she claimed she did. And I believe my feelings were correct. With the second example, I am not close to that friend. Just casual friends. And I agree, her actions show what kind of friend she is. The only reason I am more lenient with her is because I feel like absolutely no one really has the guts to tell a friend they don’t feel like hanging out, so they make an excuse instead. I feel like I have no choice but to accept how it is even though I wish people were more honest.