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Mar 23, 2018, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Wild Coyote
Great thread! 
I used to hate that question, especially the first few years I was on disability. I'd starting observing in social situations and saw that almost everyone asks others this question about career/occupation. This observation made me feel a little better. It took a few years for me to feel comfortable with being disabled. In time, it became easier to share my disabled status. Yet, it's always wise to consider who is asking and what their intentions may be.
Now that I often openly share about disability/chronic illness(es), people ask me what I do with my time. (Occupation.) In most cases, they just want to know about my interests and are trying to connect with me.
Many of us go through this, in one way or another.
Lots of helpful suggestions!
Thanks to all participants!
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Yes, when I was on disability, I would say that I had a serious illness and was taking time off of work. And then I would leave it at that. If they asked what, I'd go back to: it's really personal, if you don't mind...
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