Unfortunately, you'll never get honesty from fake friends. They simply don't care about your feelings. Their agenda is to use you for something they perceive you can give them; money, social status connections, etc.,.

You are smart to have boundaries and not accept the b.s. that people throw at you as far as making excuses not to hang out. Those people are fake friends and definitely NOT worth your time or concern.

Just keep your eye out for real genuine friendship connections and don't let these types of users take advantage of you. Good people are out there.