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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
You kind of have the same feelings I do about "if it happens, it happens." I never get a chance with the ones I want and the the ones that want me aren't what I'm looking for. My T and I discuss this. He wants me to go out but I just don't because I get stuck on one person too easily and that one's never what I think I want and never wants me back.
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I used to get stuck on one person too easily. I am sort of feeling that isn't the case. There is a part of me that is shut down a bit, for better or worse.
I am meeting people (talking to) with whom I think I'd click and then something happens where I find out they're just too weird for me (just me personally), and I have to shut it down. I don't feel like compromising.
I also have a thing where if you're not going to ask me out, then we're not going out. I did all of the pursuing in my last relationship or whatever it was, so...I'm not doing it this time.