I finally told a guy who kept coming around for booty call that it is was over. I had not seen him since last summer but he contacted me again. I initially thought he would be more interested in me as a person but all he wanted was sex. I did not mind until I realized that is all he wanted and felt bad afterwards. I felt bad because he does not care about me at all. We met last year January and met a few times about once a month. But, then I wanted more because he said initially he wanted a relationship but in reality wanted only sex. I fell for him for awhile then met other men. Then, I realized he was not worth it for me anymore. I think he is a user because he never wanted to spend any money and just came to my apartment then left without any update. I bought him beer, food, etc. He never reciprocated. He is stupid to think that anybody would want him just for sex when he is not great looking although he still can get an erection. I thought he was ok because he is well-educated and has a good job. However, it does not matter to me when we don't communicate and just have sex. I was thinking he is either married or just a odd person who just has sex with just about anybody. Thus, I don't know him as well as I would like I am afraid while he was not in communication with me he could have been having sex with others. I don't want to get any std's. This is the main reason I am letting him go although I told him I am really not interested in being booty call anymore. For some reason, the rate of std's here is rising. I am not surprised since men tend not to use condoms. It is a big problem here.