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Old Mar 24, 2018, 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted by graystreet View Post
I tried eHarmony for YEARS with no luck.

Honestly, its not dating or a relationship that I want. I just want to erase the memory of this. Replace it with something that doesn't feel like this feels.

I'm really, really spiraling. And I don't feel like my T or my pdoc are taking me seriously.

Can someone tell my how to make the little trigger box? Because there are a lot of things happening right now that might be triggers if I talk about them
I could never figure out how to do trigger box. It explains somewhere on the site I think.

I understand about replacing. But I doubt this dating is going to make you feel better at the moment. You are getting upset that they don’t call directly or message for too long, I don’t think it all makes you feel better. You are too vulnerable right now to enjoy dating game or have patience with it

Go out with women instead. If you don’t have enough women in your life to go out often, sign up for meetups. And join bunch of groups. Go meet women. There are ton of women out there who want company of other women. That will keep busy plus they can relate to your story.