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Old Mar 24, 2018, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Nike007 View Post
I am unsure when I should be done therapy, as it seems a lot of places (free ones anyways) only offer 10-12 sessions, and then you can't go anymore, because they expect you to be done, but I don't know. I still feel like I have a lot to work on and I've been in therapy for about 5 years now. I feel like I am in a battle with a different beast than before (depression now, instead of bad (mainly social) anxiety). So I just don't know. A lot of the time I feel like I don't know what to say or what to do in therapy.
The question you raise about being done in therapy can be answered by another question..... how long is a piece of string? There are so many factors and variables including the diagnoses and capacities that a person has.

My thoughts on the the places that offer 10-12 free sessions are only able to do that because they they have a fast turn over. Expecting you to be fixed after that is fine for some situations and but would not be reasonable for complex issues.

My T is of the opinion that he is there to do himself out of a job. Meaning that he works with a client to get them to a point where the client is able to deal with things in a way that has better outcomes.

Have you ever considered doing a course in DBT? It will give you more practical solutions to angst and self soothing.
Thanks for this!
Nike007