Buy a small symbol, a roller skate charm or little dump truck and put the incident in/on them to help you carry them around. Any time it gives you trouble, just look at how small and "cute" the symbol is.
Be an enginieer :-) and put together a model:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Hasegawa-CCK.../dp/B0006NGOYM
locking your incident into it?