I’m so sorry your husband reacted that way. My late husband used to react that way sometimes when I would be depressed. He would tell me I need to just get over it and be happy. Which is funny because he was a drug addict and had psychotic depression at times, so he of all people should know what I was going through. If I had told him to just “get over” his addiction he would t have talked to me for days. Sometimes people just don’t want to understand and be supportive.
I’m glad he eventually helped you out. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.