I go to Southern Illinois and they offer counseling for all different areas, including couples, for $6 a sessin.

Also, my brother's insurance ran out once he graduated college. So he called around, explained that he didn't have insurance, and a psych. offered to do each session for way less than normal.

They want to help you. Its not like theyre going to try and screw you over. (usually).

I agree with Gracey. Figure out something that is an extra $50 that you spend every week or every other week, like going out to dinner etc... Stop doing that so you can afford counseling. I also agree that, if you don't honestly want to try, youre going to keep making excuses. If you really wanted to, you would be willing to do whatever it takes. And if youre not willing to cut out something simple to save your marriage, then its probably not saveable anyways.