Do it together, Solairee, instead of taking it personally. Comment on the women as you would with a girlfriend :-) Make comments about her suitability for your husband ("Breasts aren't big enough for you, are they?" :-) and make it into a fun game. It could help quit hurting you and you'll learn more about your husband and his tastes? Too, you can tease him by looking at a few guys and pretending to be interested in them.