I feel trapped by my son. He's 24 and ought to deal with these things himself but the fact is that he doesn't. I just don't know what to do. He is sleeping in his room until the afternoon everyday. Then he plays video games all day. Maybe he works on applications and leetcode practise coding site for an hour or two. He doesn't clean up after himself and won't turn off the lights when he leaves a room. I gave him an electric heater because his computer room is cold and half the time he leaves it running all night until I wake up in the morning. He doesn't lock the door when he comes and goes. i am so frustrated. It was a bad idea to let him come home and now it is going to be a big fight to get him to leave.