Hi, Sally, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). I would not ever talk to him or listen to him or anything regarding him ever again. You don't know anything anymore about him, keep it that way. I was appalled at the number of times you called his relatives, his sister, him, other people and started the whole thing up again. Just stop. Don't have anything to do with him. Decide you won't talk to him and if he calls, you don't talk to him! If he calls your parents, that's their problem, their phone, etc. If they start to tell you about calls to them by him or anything tell them you don't want to hear it. Your personal information on him is old and out of date, keep it that way.