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Originally Posted by Wild Coyote
I think it's very important to sort this out in couples counseling. A good couples counselor will help you to take a look at the whole picture, to discover issues/potential remedies TOGETHER.
This might also involve each of you getting involved in various support groups, as well.
First, I'd see a couples counselor to set some goals together and to make sure you are on the same page. It's too easy to increase the gap between the two of you and to start heading in very different directions.
Just my two cents.
WC |
I convinced him to see a couples therapist. The first appt pissed him off. He doesn't want to be accountable for anything he's done. I made another appt for next week, so I'm hoping he'll go. Things have gotten to the point where I am sleeping upstairs, he is on the couch and we do things separately with the children. He screamed at my son the other day and I pretty much said, get more help, or I'm done. Have fun sleeping on the couch. Until you get more help, I can't live like this. I'm hoping he'll go to the next appt but he's pretty stubborn. I don't know what to do now.