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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
I adore my T, but it is like something hit me in the head with a reality baseball bat, and I just want him to care or not care. Telling me it is all a paradox and he both cares and doesnt care? I need to figure out why that hurts to hear, even while I understand it intellectually.
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Do you have children? Do you understand the concept of caring about them and at the same time knowing and accepting that they have to live their own lives with all their problems and frustrations and there is nothing you can do to take them away from them? Do you realise that at the same time as you care about them you also have to live your own life and at those moments that you are attending to yourself and other things in your life while you are not specifically attending to them they may feel that you don't care about them?